Once You're In
Etiquette & Rules
Being received is a privilege, not a formality.
What follows is the standard I hold every guest to, every time, without exception — the quiet architecture that makes the rest of it possible.
Hygiene
Arrive freshly showered, groomed, and in clean clothing. This is non-negotiable and applies to every single session — presentation is part of the respect I expect, no exceptions for familiarity or history together.
Punctuality
Arrive on time. Sessions begin and end at the scheduled time regardless of when you arrive — late arrival does not extend your booked window. Repeated lateness affects future consideration.
Limits Are Not Negotiable
The boundaries on the Limits & Expectations page do not move in person, in the moment, or under any persuasion. Testing them ends the session immediately, with no refund, and results in a permanent blacklist.
Deposits & Cancellations
A 50% deposit is collected at consultation to hold your session; the balance is due at the session itself. After the deposit is made, changes require 48–72 hours’ notice. Within 24 hours of the session, nothing can be changed.
Communication
Be direct and respectful in all correspondence. Pressure, guilt-tripping, or repeated renegotiation of terms after screening is a fast route to being declined for future sessions.
Discretion
I extend discretion to my clients as a matter of course, and expect the same in return. Details of sessions, screening information, and any identifying information stay exactly where they belong — between us, and nowhere else.
Questions about how any of this works in practice? Check the FAQ before you apply.